As Jeremy Treat mentions it is often helpful to reflect on Jesus' prayer. The Lord's Prayer starts with "Therefore, you should pray like this: Our Father in heaven, your name be honored as holy. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven" (Matt 6:9-11 CSB). It is much more about God's will being done on Earth than it is our will being done in Heaven.[^1] In fact, when our perspective shifts like that it actually allows us to realize that when it comes to marriage it might not be as much about what makes us happy as what makes us holy.[^2] God's primary purpose in life and even in marriage is not to give us the best life possible, but to transform us more and more into His image and to make His glory known through the Earth. That requires that sometimes we make sacrifices and that sometimes we love sacrificially and occasionally we must be willing to die to ourself and our desires in order that God can do in us and through us what He wants to do in the world rather than us expecting God to transform the world around us into a paradise. After all, our hope is not in our current circumstances but in our future with God on the New Earth.
[^1]: Jeremy Treat, Josh Chatraw, Sports and Prayer, YouTube Video, 7:31, April 9, 2015, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLgxrok5RLg.
[^2]: Gary Thomas, Sacred Marriage, audio book, 7 hours 43 minutes, August 9, 2016, https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Marriage-What-Designed-Happy/dp/B01I1XJL3E/ref=tmm_aud_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1498449046&sr=8-1 .